Couples Counseling
“We Love Each Other… But This Just Isn’t Working.”
You share a home, a calendar—maybe kids or a mortgage—but it feels like you're miles apart.
Conversations spiral into tension, one of you withdraws, the other pushes harder, and bitterness takes root.
You’re still functioning. You might even laugh, support each other, and share routines. But something’s changed—you don’t always feel like friends anymore.
Affection feels distant, and the warmth of being wanted seems rare.
You long to feel seen as a person, not just a partner or parent.
Why It Feels This Way and Why It’s Not Your Fault
You’ve tried—the books, the date nights, even late-night conversations.
But between parenting, work, bills, and schedules, authentic closeness has slipped through your fingers.
You’re not broken—you’re overwhelmed.
Much of the distance comes from old wounds, missed needs, and conversations you never had.
Now you find yourselves living together, but not feeling together.
Let’s bring awareness to what's been lost and start rebuilding—together.
Hi, Im Erik.
I Make Space for You to Be Known and Loved…Again
I don’t sit back while couples drift—I step forward with compassion and clarity.
We slow down to uncover what's underneath the distance: shame, fear, unmet needs?
We’ll notice how past hurts show up in present moments—and give them space to heal.
Therapy with me is never one-size-fits-all; we shape the journey to fit your relationship.
In 90-minute weekly sessions or longer, we untangle emotional patterns and rebuild connection.
For deeper work, I offer 2-, 3-, and 5-day intensives—with three-hour sessions and reflective space in between.
Regardless of process we create, You’ll begin to feel the difference:
A softened tone when tension rises
Conversations that don’t spiral
A sense that you’re seen again—someone knows and loves who you truly are.
Feeling Unsure?
Maybe you’re thinking
“it’s not that bad.”
But you know it could be better.
“We don’t have time.”
And yet, time to repair is just what life demands.
“Talk might make things worse.”
Guided support makes it safer than silence.
“Therapy didn’t help us before.”
This isn’t the same—it’s personalized and relational.
“It seems expensive.”
It’s not a cost—it’s an investment in a future you both built together.
Book a free consultation and explore what’s possible.
“Never underestimate the power of intentional time with your partner.”
- Terry Gaspard
You didn’t choose each other to live side by side like strangers. But somehow… here you are.
The days blur together. Conversations feel transactional. You’re managing a life—but not sharing one.
And while no one’s yelling or storming out, the silence is its own kind of heartbreak.
If this disconnection continues, it won’t just shape your relationship—it will start to reshape you:
You stop expecting comfort.
You start second-guessing your worth.
You grow used to walking on emotional eggshells.
You’ll miss:
Shared glances that say, “I’ve got you.”
The deep exhale of emotional safety—even during hard seasons.
The quiet joy of being chosen—over and over again.
What’s Really at Stake
This feels too important to ignore, let’s begin undoing it together.
But here’s the truth:
You don’t need a dramatic overhaul to find your way back.
Reconnection starts with something small—but sacred.
It looks like this:
You’re folding laundry, and they join you—not out of duty, but love.
You talk about the hard parenting moment—not to assign blame, but to lighten the load.
You leave for work grounded, because home feels like partnership—not pressure.
You pause in the kitchen, talk for five honest minutes—and walk away feeling seen.
You feel less alone—not because everything’s fixed, but because you’re facing it together.
This Is Soulcare for Your Relationship
This isn’t bandaids.
This is therapy that helps you mourn what’s been lost,
mend what’s been torn and broken,
and find passion and meaning in each other again.
You're not just surviving—you're choosing to heal.
Let’s begin together.